Iyende
Iyende Originally uploaded by trulastar. I’m going through our pics, uploading stuff to flicker. This is from last summer right before she got her mohawk. I look at her and see her baby smile. I remember the first time she grinned at me with her first little tooth…It was like a ray of sunlight or [...]
Link Me
Want to have your blog linked to mine? Just let me know, long as it’s not a hate-site or crazy porn I will probably link it. Leave me a comment here or email me: trula at MSPmedia dot net Want to link my blog to yours? I would really appreciate it! let me know you [...]
Listen
I often feel impatient when listening to Brian talk. I tend to interrupt him. We both have a bad habit of interrupting each other and of finishing each other’s sentences. Yesterday we had a nice time talking, I made a conscious effort not to interrput him. I learned a very powerful lesson: I am not [...]
My sons
000_1112 Originally uploaded by trulastar. This pic of my sons 2 summers ago is so sweet. They are 3 years apart and now that my older son is 11 and in middle school sometimes it seems like the age difference is much more. But then they have moments of being best friends again.
The Master Cleanse
I want to do this again badly, I just need to figure out when would be a good time to start it. Maybe this friday… See more progress on: master cleanse
RIP Mrs. King 1927 – 2006
Dear Coretta Scott King, may you rest in peace. I am sad but hopeful that you will be reunited with your husband. Read more In my living room I have a picture of Dr. King and this photo: hanging on the wall and this morning when we saw the news my son Todd said to [...]
I don’t curse anymore
This goal was worth doing for me because it has made my home life smoother. I don’t have to apologize or make excuses to my children for using vulgar language. I never cursed at my children but frequently cursed around them about various things. They always looked so disappointed with me when I cursed and [...]
Oprah & James Frey
Ok if you’ve known me for 5 minutes then you know 5 things about me: I’m a writer and love to read, I am deeply in love with my husband, I’m all about being a mama, Lenny Kravitz will be my second husband if *god forbid* something happens to my beloved, and I am Oprah’s [...]
Mama Suicide Crisis
Over on one of my favorite community sites, hipmama, 2 mamas posted about wanting to commit suicide. To say we were all shocked and appalled is an understatement. Part of what I told her: I have talked about it many times before on this site but you may not know that I almost killed my [...]
Time
When I think about this goal, I ask myself what is it I want to do with physics? Basically I want to get paid to study and think about physics. Maybe teach it on the high school or college level. My great love in physics is quantum theory, I could sit around and ponder that [...]
Slowly Getting There
I made arrangements to catch up on my student loan payments, $300 is coming out of my account today. It took me forever to make the call, and once I did I regret not doing it sooner. What was I so afraid of? The woman I spoke with was very kind and explained to me [...]
Higher Love
I love this song Higher Love by Steve Winwood. I love it! I remember it captured exactly how I was feeling before I got with my husband. and the feeling of exultation I felt when I realized that he was my higher love. Think about it, there must be higher loveDown in the heart or [...]
Cory Maye
The Strange Case of Cory MayeBy Keith BoykinDecember 15, 2005 01:03 PMin politics Picture this. You’re a black man asleep in bed at home in Mississippi. It’s the night after Christmas 2001, and no one else is in the house but your 18-month-old daughter. You hear a loud thud and suddenly the sound of feet [...]
A story about "Jack LaLane Power Juicer"
Jack LaLane Power Juicer by Jack LaLane Brian got me this for my birthday and I just love it. We have been juicing fools as of late! This thing is so cool, you can throw in whole pieces of fruit without peeling or cutting. It gets so much juice out, I am amazed. And you [...]
A story about "Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal With People Who Try to Control You"
This. Book. Is. AWESOME. It’s by Patricia Evans who wrote the also awesome book The Verbally Abusive Relationship. I initially got this book for a close friend of mine who is trying to come to terms with being in a physically abusive relationship. I have been there, and she knows this, but she does not [...]
Sick but Thankful
I am sick as a dog. I think I have strep throat. This really sucks. At the hint of a cough, I boil a yellow onion or two in 2-3 cups of water then drink the boiled onion water. It usually works! I haven’t used an OTC cough and cold remedy in over 3 years. [...]
Smile
I need to smile at my husband more. Just smile at him and ask him how he is doing more often. I take him for granted so much. And I need to touch him more often, not be afraid to just touch him and hug him. I am not as affectinate with Brian as I [...]
Rate My Life
About what I expected, everything is great except for my ends (money): This Is My Life, Rated Life: 8 Mind: 8.3 Body: 8.4 Spirit: 8.3 Friends/Family: 8.3 Love: 8.2 Finance: 4.2 Take the Rate My Life Quiz
Movie
This month our SDWM (Special Day with Mom) will be a movie at the dollar show theater. We get movies at the library often when they come out on DVD, and often have said how cool they must have looked on the big screen. But going to the movies regularly is so expensive, and we [...]
De-cluttering
I am still trying to de-clutter, I had no idea when I started seriously de-cluttering my house 3 months ago how much junk and unused stuff and just plain old garbage we had in the house…yuck. It was/is overwhelming. We have designated Saturday as the get-it-out-of-the-house day, which is very helpful. All throughout the week [...]
Did a tasklist
So I did a 43things list just for the Mamagathering:http://www.43things.com/person/MG2006 43things has helped me so much with my personal stuff, it’s a great motivator. This will help me and the local mamas get busy getting this conference together! See more progress on: Go to Mama Gathering 2006
Living Simply
I have started doing this, in part because I am in the process of de-cluttering my house and in part because we are planning to build a small one-story straw bale house…we won’t have enough room for all the stuff we have now in the smaller house. Over the holidays my kids and I cleaned [...]
Personal Style
This is something I’ve been musing on for a while. I think I have a style of clothing and of home decor, but I am not consistent with it. I make and wear my own clothes often, but quite often I am walking around in sweatpants and big t-shirts or sweatshirts of my husband’s. And [...]
A story about "The Martha Rules: 10 Essentials for Achieving Success as You Start, Grow, or Manage a Business"
The Martha Rules: 10 Essentials for Achieving Success as You Start, Grow, or Manage a Business by Martha Stewart Although it surprises me, I like Martha Stewart. I admire her business sense, sense of style, and she is also very funny. I watched her show a few times almost against my will, and I was [...]
Holiday Quilts
I made a quilt for each of my kids for the past Holiday; they loved them! I broke my husband’s digital camera but as soon as I get my old-school 35mm pics developed I will post pics of them. Each quilt is twin-sized and has a theme which uses pieces of their old clothes. For [...]
I’m Sleeping!
Making this one of my 43things was one of the smartest things I ever did because if helped me to confront my sleeping patterns and ‘force’ myself to change. I am now sleeping 7-8 hours a night! and I cannot believe how different I feel. I am amazed at the physical difference. If asked before [...]
Set amount of time?
I watched Girlfriends last night, a tv show about a group of 4 women who are friends. All are single except for one, who just had a baby. Another woman has a child but he is a big kid, I think 10 or 12. On this episode 3 of the girlfriends were in a conundrum [...]
Happy New Year
Happy New Year to Everyone! I am VERY excited about 2006. I am pondering all that happened in my life last year, and what I’d like to have happen this year. I hope you all are blessed, happy, healthy, and productive in 2006!














